Before the Aisle Wedding Guide (PDF)

I created this guide because the journey to marriage shifted my perspective in ways I never could have expected. Planning my own wedding was more than choosing a dress or a venue—it was a deeply emotional, transformative experience that unearthed fears, insecurities, past wounds, and questions about identity, change, and the true meaning of this time.

What I craved most wasn’t another checklist; it was space. A space to feel seen and heard, to breathe, reflect, and connect with the version of myself emerging through it all. I wanted to know I wasn’t alone.

My hope is that these pages give you the space I was searching for—space to honor your emotions, reflect on your perspective, and feel empowered as you step into this sacred new chapter.

This guide includes:

• 30+ guided prompts to help you slow down, tune in, and process the emotional build-up before your big day

• Honest reflections and personal stories that speak to the parts no one talks about.

• A grounding emotions list to help you name what you’re really feeling beneath the surface

• Thoughtfully designed, fillable worksheets to move from overwhelm to clarity—so you can walk down the aisle fully present